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Well, I just got back from NYC.  It was an incredible weekend spent with wonderful people.  I know, I still need to do a post about my Witching Hour experience, but for now, let me tell you about my trip to NYC.

My sister and I arrived in northern New Jersey around noon on Friday.  Now, let me explain... I've always has a slight prejudice against New Jersey, based on my limited experienced there, as well as my suite-mate in college from the state.  Weird girl.  She actually LIKED the smell of pollution.  It was scary. So, even though I knew that a lot of New Jersey was a very pretty area with upper-class towns or rolling farmland... I couldn't get the image of armpit-of-America out of my head.  Until this weekend.

Anyhow, back on topic.  We stayed with [livejournal.com profile] duhmom and [livejournal.com profile] desdomonda who live in northern NJ, about 20 minutes outside of Manhattan.  (Maya stayed with them for three days when she came to the States to visit… meaning she must have had an awesome experience.)  First of all, let me tell you that they're some of the nicest people I’ve ever met.  Second, they live in the coolest house I’ve ever been in.  It’s like a jigsaw puzzle gone RIGHT.  I want a house just like that someday.  Or maybe I can just be reincarnated as one of their cats.

Anyhow, almost as soon as we had arrived at the house, we had to leave again for the singing competition. There was delivery pizza for lunch, and I grabbed a slice (mmm... I have a new appreciation for thin-crust, NY style), and then we left. [livejournal.com profile] desdomonda  came with us.  The competition was at a mall about 15 minutes away... IF you know how to get there.  Apparently, Desdomonda didn’t, and her mother wrote the directions really quickly so there were glitches.  “Take a left… then another left… then another left…”  “Er… aren’t we going in a circle?”  “… You know… I think you’re right.”  Well, we got there, and we had a good time.  My sister didn’t win, but there were a ton of people, and she was definitely one of the better ones.  Afterwards, we all had ice cream, and went back to the house.

By the time we got back, [livejournal.com profile] duhmom had almost finished making dinner… spaghetti and homemade meat sauce… VERY yummy.  And pineapple angel cake for dessert!  SQUEE!  Oh, and during dinner, the family pets provided entertainment.  One of the cats was up on the birdcage, getting cozy with this “black cat” Halloween decoration statue.  Someone made a comment about beastiality, and duhmom said in a completely normal conversational tone, “No, it’s statue-tory rape.”  I almost died laughing.

After dinner, [livejournal.com profile] desdomonda insisted that I ought to experience “Firefly” (that new show from the creator of Buffy), which she had on DVD.  Not bad.  A bit weird, but not bad.  Later, the bunch of us stayed up talking HP, fandom, fanfic, and all things slashy.  I read some of desdomonda’s fics… she’s a good writer!  Her stuff is dark and twisted… exactly what I like.  She actually had written a sequel piece to Maya’s “Dark Side of Light”, and it was really good.  Anyhow, we all stayed up way too late.

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]When I posted asking if anyone lived in the NYC area and had space for my sister and me to crash for the night, I was hoping for maybe a sofa or an armchair, or maybe a futon it I was lucky.  Instead, my sister and I each had our own guest room.  My sister’s was the regular guest room, and I slept in the oldest daughter’s old bedroom (she’s 27 and has moved out now)… the room was beautiful.  It was decorated on the theme from the “Rainforest Café” restaurants, with a thick green carpet and light green walls.  Stuffed monkeys and parrots and butterflies were placed amongst fake vines and foliage and flowers, and the lighting was all on dimmer switches.  The bed was a queen-sized four-poster.  I’d never slept in a four-poster bed… I *must* get one now.

[Bad username or unknown identity: In the morning, we were up at ][Bad username or unknown identity: 8:30][Bad username or unknown identity: so we could shower, eat, and be on our way into the city by ][Bad username or unknown identity: 10:30][Bad username or unknown identity:   ]My sister wanted to get rush tickets for “Rent”, which was the purpose of the trip.  Rush tickets are front row, and only $20 each.  So it was me, my sister, duhmom, desdomonda, and desdomonda’s little sister… who is a Potter fan, but not a slasher.  With a slasher mother and older sister, don’t worry, she’ll be corrupted soon.  We got to the theatre and all applied for rush tickets, requesting two apiece.  Only two of us got our name drawn, so we had four front-row tickets, and my sister bought one of the $45 tickets for herself, and she sat further back because she had seen the show once before from the second row.

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]Got coffee at Starbucks.  Snacks at this Greek-style deli and wrap place.  Very good wraps.  I found the ugliest shoes in the world at a discount shoe place.  We saw the start of a doggie costume parade in Time Square.  And then, back to the theatre. 

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]And I have to say, it’s so delightfully slashy.  The performers have great voices, sweet moves, and the best arses I’ve ever seen.  Seriously though, the whole cast had great chemistry, and the experience was just awesome.

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]I told him, “You make an awesome asshole,” which is the nature of the character he plays… the actor himself was very sweet and nice, of course.  And then he said, “I saw you there in the front row.”  I was stunned.  I’ve done some stage performing… you don’t *really* look at the people in the audience.  So I said, “You recognize me from the audience?”  And he took my face in his hands and said with a smile, “How could I forget such a cute face?”  I’m about 99.9999% sure he’s gay, so no, he didn’t say it like that, but it was still just the sweetest thing.  He signed my playbill, and everyone else’s in our little group.

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]She had an ad from a local steakhouse, and said it was her treat.  Now, I want people to understand… to me, an expensive meal out is one where the average dinner costs more than $10.  We got to this restaurant, sat down, and looked at the menu… the average main entrée alone, without side dishes, cost about $40.  I’m a frugal person, and I had a hard time ordering, because I just couldn’t order something that expensive… so finally, both of the daughters told me to get the fillet mignon, and I did.  *meep*  Oh, and a glass of some incredible wine.  And there were these sweet rolls… mmmmm…  Dinner was great.  Although three of us ordered the fillet mignon… one medium, one medium-rare, and one rare (that was me)… and they mixed them up.  I then felt *really* bad, but I don’t like medium steak… so they brought it back and eventually managed to get me a properly rare steak… mmm… beefy heaven.

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]By then, we were all exhausted, and my sister and I were feeling a bit under the weather.  Originally, she and I had planned to drive back to [personal profile] massachusetts[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]I had a headache, and my sister’s stomach was messed up… she’s mostly vegetarian, but not strictly, but after two days of having meat, she wasn’t feeling too hot.  So, we stayed for one more night, and finally left today around [personal profile] noon[identity profile] .

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]I’ve seldom had people do such wonderful things for me, and I’m both humbled and grateful.  Once again, I find that it’s true: the HP fandom has the nicest, sweetest, most wonderful people in it, and I’m lucky to be a part of such a great extended family.

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]Naturally, they’d be attending the NYC opening… and it sounds like a lot of fun.  I was already planning to go with the [community profile] boston[Bad username or unknown identity: line-party group, but to go to a movie release in ][Bad username or unknown identity: New York][Bad username or unknown identity:   ]I think it would be incredible… I just might have to go.  :D

[Bad username or unknown identity:   ]Goodnight!

Date: 2005-10-25 05:47 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] truesalcove.livejournal.com
No way! You got Renthead tickets?!? DANG! I was disappointed to find out that they changed it to a raffle a few years ago, instead of the first so many people in line. But when I finally get to NY, I'm SO doing that! And the movie comes out soon! *dances* WITH THE OBC!!! And how cute about Benny! That's soooo sweet!

I'm incredibly jeolous right now... *sigh*

Date: 2005-10-25 02:49 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
*giggle*
Oh yeah, and did I mention that I got my picture taken with "Roger" and "Mimi" after the show? They were doing it as a fundraiser for the hurricane victims. Oh, and during the curtain-calls, the actor who sang the first round of "Christmas bells are ringing" (the one with dreadlocks, I think it was Shaun Earl) made eye contact with me, gave me a huge smile, and winked. Okay, I'll stop now. :D

I do wonder why they changed it to a raffle though. I agree, it should be a first-in-line thing, but then, how long would they have a huge line outside their door?

Date: 2005-10-25 06:18 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] destinyfroste.livejournal.com
First off...jealous...I have never been to New York.

Second off, I was literally just thinking about you and had just checked to see if you were on instant messenger but NOOOOOOO...so I will just attack your livejournal since it appears you WERE online at the time I was thinking about you.

Anyhow, really left field question for you...What kind of music do you like?

Date: 2005-10-25 02:52 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Hmmm, I was thinking about you two days ago, so I guess we've got a time-delay going on. LOL.

As for the type of music I like... anything *except* rap, R&B, and country. I really like most rock-alternative, folk-rock, and all sorts of random stuff. Why do you ask?

Date: 2005-10-25 06:43 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] miss-charmed.livejournal.com
Wow P! Sounds like a very very wonderful time out there. Damn, one day I have to go visit NY too.

Date: 2005-10-25 01:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmagrant01.livejournal.com
OMG!!! I was in NYC this weekend too! It was MDH's birthday, so we went there on a theatre binge: Sweeney Todd *melts*, The Odd Couple (got autographs!), and Five Course Love (which an old friend of ours is starring in). It would have been crazy if we'd just bumped into each other on the street, huh?

Date: 2005-10-25 02:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Wah! I wish I'd known! We could have grabbed a coffee or something! *tackle-glomps* But yeah, it would have been really funny if we'd run into each other. My sister tends to meet people she knows in NYC... even if they're from England, and she's from Boston, and they have no logical reason to be in NY at the same time.

But cool about all the stuff you got to see! My next objective is to see "Avenue Q". *grins*

Date: 2005-10-25 02:57 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmagrant01.livejournal.com
It'll be playing in Las Vegas when we're there next summer, you know... ;-)

Date: 2005-10-25 03:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!! We must go to see it! *bounces*

Are you online right now, by any chance? (IM?)

Date: 2005-10-26 06:33 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmagrant01.livejournal.com
*delayed response*

Sorry, I was at work. Still am... *looks devious*

Date: 2005-10-26 08:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
LOL... you bad girl, you. But, as we know, you're only in trouble if you get caught. *wink*

Date: 2005-10-26 06:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmagrant01.livejournal.com
Oh, and sorry to hear about the troll who's been giving you shit. Some people really need to get a life of their own and stop trying to create drama for those of us who already have lives, ya know?

*smites troll*

Date: 2005-10-26 08:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Yeah, some people, right? I haven't seen or heard from the troll in days, but apparently he's still trying to post on Wintermoon and Azhure's group. Azhure keeps shutting him down, but still, he's there. *sigh*

I wonder what Cassie would say IF she knew.

Date: 2005-10-26 09:27 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmagrant01.livejournal.com
I don't know her, really, but from my limited interaction with her, I'd guess she'd roll her eyes and say some people really ought to get a hobby of their very own and stop being such fucktards on her behalf.

Date: 2005-10-26 10:13 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
LOL... thou art probably correct. I haven't met her or talked to her, but it seems like a pretty standard reaction. My biggest worry is actually that this fucker will report me to fanfiction.net, and the idiots who run that site will delete my fic without even validating the accusation. FF.net has been known to do that.

Date: 2005-10-26 10:16 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] emmagrant01.livejournal.com
God, I hate ffn, for many reasons, but that's one of them. You'd just lose your comments, right? Your fic is posted elsewhere, I assume?

Date: 2005-10-26 10:40 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Yeah, if they delete it, I lose everything from that site.

I have the fic archived on Schnoogle, over at FictionAlley. It's my preferred archive, and the people at that site are pretty on-the-ball, and wouldn't delete a fic without validating the claims.

Date: 2005-10-25 03:55 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] desdomonda.livejournal.com
Aaw, I don't know what to say! Tee hee, Jack says hi, he just jumped into my lap and curled up. You say the sweetest things! I'm happy to hear that you both got home alright, I worried about you a bit. I hope Yvette feels better. Sara was well enough to go to school today, but I'm laid out with the phlegm and sore throat. Later! Des

Date: 2005-10-25 04:28 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Well you guys were the absolute sweetest people in the world to me and my sister! Of course I'd say nice things!

Yvette's at work today. She went to bed early last night. As for me, I had the nastiest headache ever last night, but that was more from dehydration than anything else. I had some water and gatorade, and it was all okay.

As for your cold... I recommend slippery elm tea for the sore throat, and for the phlegm... I have two sets of recommendations, depending on how much you're willing to sacrifice your taste buds. If you don't want anything too icky-tasting, I recommend a tea of chamomile (2 tsp.), mint (one sprig, optional), fresh ginger root (about a thumb-sized piece, sliced thin), and anise seed (about 2 tsp, crushed). Start with about two cups of water, and add all the ingredients except the mint. Boil at a low simmer until the water volume has reduced to about a cup. Strain out the solids, sweeten with honey, add mint if desired, and drink VERY hot. It will be spicy, and rather tasty. If you're willing to sacrifice something of taste, thyme and basil aren't exactly the herbs you think of for tea, but they're common and quite good for coughs and colds. There are other herbs out there that are perhaps more effective, but I wouldn't recommend them to someone who doesn't often do herbals.

Firefly

Date: 2005-10-25 06:14 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] reallythateasy.livejournal.com
Hi,

We met very briefly at TWH, walking from Draco Malfoy, more than a coward, to the Harry/Draco panel, I know I'm not that memorable. Anyhow I read your story and have been meaning to tell you how much I enjoyed the story, it had everything I look for in a story. Truly wonderful.

Also, Firefly is one of my fav shows and it is now a motion pic called Serenity. Just felt like throwing that out in case you enjoyed the show.

~Crystal

Re: Firefly

Date: 2005-10-25 06:36 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Yeah, I know about the motion-picture... desdomonda wants me to see it. The show wasn't bad... I don't know if I'll go to the theatre to see "Serenity", but I might rent it when it comes out on film.

And of course I remember you! Not by name (I have a terrible memory for names), but we shared a long walk in the rain... that counts for something!

And I'm glad you liked the story. I was a bit nervous about the last chapter... some people still don't like the ending. They think I should have killed off Draco. Or Harry. Or both. *shrugs*

Re: Firefly

Date: 2005-10-25 07:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] separatrix.livejournal.com
No no no -- we don't like dead Harry and/or Draco. Oh no. Uh uh. I prefer them both alive and well, thankyouverymuch. ;)

Re: Firefly

Date: 2005-10-25 10:39 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] reallythateasy.livejournal.com
I'm not much for killing off either of the boys so I'm glad that it ended the way that it did. Besides, isn't there a quote somewhere that you write for yourself first, so long as you like the way it ended that's all that matters. (I think I am coming across condescending here. Despite all that, I am as much a feedback whore as anyone). Anyway, nice talking to you again and hope to see you at Lumos.

Re: Firefly

Date: 2005-10-25 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
You're not being condescending, don't worry. And the thing is, even though I'd originally planned a happy ending, by the time I got into the final few chapters of the fic, I could see several possible endings, and I actually *liked* several of them for different reasons. So, I'm satisfied with this one, but I also liked a couple of other variations just as much. I'm a bit ambiguous, I guess.

Date: 2005-10-25 07:02 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] separatrix.livejournal.com
It sounds like you had an absolutely wonderful time. I've not been to Manhattan for several years now -- the last time I went Mars was the hot club to get into (I didn't!) and we stayed at the Palace overlooking St Patrick's.

As for Jersey, you can get the best tomatoes when you take the scenic route from Maryland into Atlantic City. Jersey tomatoes are the best tomatoes I have ever eaten.

Date: 2005-10-25 07:20 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Jersey tomatoes, eh? I'll have to remember that... but I hate fresh tomatoes. Sad, eh?

Date: 2005-10-26 12:14 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] greenwitch.livejournal.com
*awesome* What town were you in? (That'd be real funny if it were mine...)

Hey, if you're gonna be around here on GOF weekend -- I don't know what premire you're going to (THE premire, or just opening day?) But I'm trying to get the [livejournal.com profile] hp_nj people to go to the IMAX up at Palisades Park Mall on Opening Night (ie Friday Night, the 18th... so specific when midnight showings come into question, argh), if you'd like to join us! The mall is right over the NJ/NY state border, only about a half-hour from me.

Sorry I missed you this weekend -- I wound up having work cancelled but I was a slug the entire time, first day off (besides TWH) in what, 5 weeks? Or something?

Date: 2005-10-26 01:30 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
I was in Rivervale. And as far as which event I'd be attending... I'm not sure. I must ask. LOL.

Date: 2005-10-26 11:07 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] greenwitch.livejournal.com
Hmm, weird, I actually don't know where that is but it has to be within a 20-minute radius of my house if it's in a 20-minute radius of the city, LOL.

Cool. I don't want to steal you from your NYC premire event of course, but if they're at different times you're welcome to come by ours :D

Date: 2005-10-27 04:12 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Cool! I wonder how many events I could hit?

Date: 2005-10-26 12:53 am (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] aethel
And he took my face in his hands and said with a smile, “How could I forget such a cute face?”

:) "Aww..." typed aethel with an uncharacteristic smiley.

Having exchanged perhaps two words with you at The Witching Hour, I have to agree with him. You are quite memorable. Although that could be because Voldemort seemed to be giving you a piggyback ride during the Harry and the Potters concert....

not-a-stalker!aethel

Date: 2005-10-26 01:32 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
LOL... I actually jumped on Voldemort, but yeah... piggyback.

And I'm memorable? Er... I hope that's a good thing. *meeble*

Date: 2005-10-26 12:43 pm (UTC)
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From: [personal profile] aethel
Fear not. 'Tis a good thing.
Lo, for aethel hath spoken.

Date: 2005-10-26 02:12 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Yay! :D

Date: 2005-10-26 04:59 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] yarnguy716.livejournal.com
Sounds like you had a great time! I saw Rent when it came to Buffalo a few years ago. Have not been to NYC in almost 2 years, the last thing I saw was "The Boy From Oz" (Hugh Jackman! Mega-Hot!). I really want to go see Wicked.

I am hoping to go to Las Vegas next year for Lumos. It has to wait until after the first of the year to see how things go with work. But if I can I will be there.

Date: 2005-10-26 02:04 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Wicked was a lot of fun... very different from Rent, to put it mildly. I'm hoping to see Avenue Q next.

And that makes two of us hoping to go to Lumos. I have to see how my own work situation pans out. Sad, eh?

Date: 2005-10-26 07:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] ice-is-blue.livejournal.com
It sounds like you had an absolutely fabulous time. I have fond memories of my NYC trip. Highlight: Seeing Mark Hamill playing a gay dance instructor. Because it was Mark Hamill. Dancing. *fangirly squeal* Six Dance Lessons in Six Weeks, if you're curious. To be quite honest on the matter, I've always been more partial to Mr. Ford... but Hamill's voice, and all the VA-work he's done.

Desdomonda’s mother sounds wicked cool. My mother doesn't read, period, let alone read slash. One thing the HP fandom has that a lot of the anime fandoms don't are inter-generational fans. When you look at it that way, having a mother/daughter/(soon-to-be daughter) bond over slash isn't totally unusual.

Odd, odd, wacky, wonderful world.

Date: 2005-10-26 02:11 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
It is a wonderful wacky world. And actually, it's the mom that I knew from online, not the daughter.

As for my mom, she's willing to read my slash stories, but she hasn't read the regular books yet! My mom was a Literature and History teacher, and *used to* read a LOT. Lately, not so much. I'm going to have to force her to read the Potter books.

Date: 2005-10-26 09:29 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] waterbird.livejournal.com
Y-ay! Big cheer for the debunking of your impression of New Jersey! I'll be the first to admit that my home state isn't perfect, but it definitely gets much more abuse than it deserves! There really are a lot of beautiful places to visit there, especially in the northwest, where I grew up. Gorgeous countryside and farmlands, great hiking, picturesque towns, some nice people, etc. *steps off NJ-Defense-Soapbox*

Glad to hear you had such an incredible weekend. I'll be over in November and would love to see Avenue Q. Don't know if we'll have time, though.

Date: 2005-10-26 10:38 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Yeah, you're right... there's a lot to NJ that doesn't fall under the "armpit of America" stereotype... although there *are* some places that do. But still, I saw some of the nicer side of the state, and met some awesome people, so yeah. *huggles*

Maybe, if we're in NY at the same time, we could see Avenue Q together?

Date: 2005-10-27 05:45 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] waterbird.livejournal.com
That would be cool. We can't really schedule our trip to the US until we've got a flat sorted out in London and have had all our stuff shipped over from Germany ... so it's likely going to be sort of last minute, which seems to define my life these days! But as soon as I know anything more concrete, I will let you know!

Date: 2005-10-27 12:24 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] nymphadora17.livejournal.com
Oh! I wish I had known you were going to NY I just got back!

Date: 2005-10-27 03:15 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
Awww, it seems I missed a bunch of people who were in NY at the same time! I hope you had fun!

Date: 2005-10-29 05:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] morus-somnium.livejournal.com
Wow! One of the actors actually touched you *melts* held your face in his hands!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ^O^ *faints*
Dammit... this is why I should live in America T_T Lucky poos *sniffles* ...
It sounds like you had a really great time :D Good for you ^___________^

Date: 2005-10-29 08:59 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] mijan.livejournal.com
*giggles* Yeah. He was really sweet. Where do you live? Can you visit the USA?

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